IT IS NOT FAIR!!!! A good friend of mine, who I have helped through her first miscarriage last year, lost her 3rd baby yesterday. It is not fair. She is such a strong person, but I don’t know how this is going to effect her… Another little baby who has grown it’s butterfly wings and gone to heaven.

One simple line “I lost the baby” made my heart sink, bringing back memories all too familiar to me.  Kirsten in is the same boat as me- at uni, long distance relationship, engaged, an angel mummy to two little ones, and holding the hope of having another baby in the future. She had it snached away from her. 

I feel helpless as to what to say to her other than “I’m sorry” and “I am here for you…”

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